Just how many opportunities have we missed because of lack of con dence and low self-esteem? How long will we keep our talent and beauty to ourselves? Here is how to boost self con dence!
What is self-confidence?
It is when we are certain that things will be in our favor. We believe in ourselves whatever is it we will have it. Con dence is like power. Once we unleash it things will change. We’ll start grabbing those opportunities we missed. We’ll start to believe in ourselves. We won’t feel pressured. Just by simply posting our sel es without thinking that it will get zero likes or people will shame us is a big step.
How does self-con dence help us? Con dence is a key to a success. When we have low self-esteem it tends to block the potential that we have. Don’t let our talents rot inside us. Let’s show the world what we can do.
Con dence will help us go to different places. It makes us shine. Just think of getting the promotion you’ve been waiting for. If you truly believe in yourself that you can get it, you can.
What causes lack of con dence?
People don’t appreciate what you have and you might think you’re not enough
Society may have high standards
Comparing yourself to others
These are a few reasons why a person’s lack self-con dence. Everyone has a different approach on boosting their self-con dence. And not all can do that. Learn here on how to build up self-con dence.
Imagine yourself walking around the mall where people barely know you. It’s a good way to practice self-con dence. Just walk like you’re on a runway. It helps to boost your con dence. Don’t slouch. Don’t think of the people around you and just mind your own business.
Everyone Has Flaws and Insecurities
Not everyone is born perfect and you don’t have to be perfect for people to accept you. You have aws and insecurities and still worthy. Just like Mandy Hale said, “just be yourself. Let people see the real, imperfect, awed, quirky, weird, beautiful, magical person that you are.”
Do Not Compare Yourself To Others
Life isn’t a race. The reason why most people lack self-con dence is because they compare themselves to others achievements. Don’t do that. It’s not healthy for your well-being. The one and only person you can compare yourself is to your past self.
When people make mistakes they blame themselves. Remember that it’s okay to make mistakes. Be kind to yourself. When the world is too harsh, spread kindness.
Take Care of Your Soul, Mind, and Body
When you fully take care of yourself, you are at your best. Not just physically, but also mentally, emotionally and spiritually. If all of these are well taken care of, you feel more con dent and healthy. Most jobs require a lot of time and self care is easily forgotten. One easy way is to have a selfcheck reminder or make it part of your routine.
Lizzo once said that, “if you are con dent in yourself and however you want yourself to be presented. And you’re doing well and doing it because you want to do it and not because someone is pressuring you. The more power to you.”